求一篇大学英语口语考试2人对话范文……………………急求！！！！

Question

题目： 1，what are the essential qualities to success?
2, do you think there is a friendship between parents and children?

Answer 1

对话范文就没有了
有篇自创的原文，你参考一下
Well, actually, everyone wants to achieve success as we all have our own dreams. However, success in life can be achieved in different ways. Many magazines and television programmes show us that success can be measured in terms of money, or having a successful job. In my opinion, whatever you do, there are some factors we should consider of it if you want to be successful. For instance, we should grasp the opportunity, and we should be self confident, then, we need to work efficiently. But failure is what usually happens around us. So I think we need to analyse in detail how to achieve success, because success is one part of our life plan, for example, we need to find an ideal and suitable job. Or maybe, it will be one of the valuable experiences that we can find our deficiency so that we can improve ourselves. When we get the goal in the end, we will be satisfied with the final result。
Some people say the key to success is good luck, while others claim it is hard work that really counts. It is no doubt that successful people do take the advantage of opportunities. But if they don’t work hard, they can only wait to see opportunities passing by. So in my opinion, opportunity, devotion and perseverance are three fundamental factors in success.
Opportunity is the first key to success, as the opportunities are rare and only the luckiest persons can obtain them. However, we have to say that various kinds of opportunities are around us all the time. But, we must try our best to find them and make full use of them。
Diligence, it means to work without any waste of time. If we waste time, our future life will be a failure. If we are diligent now, we might not be able to get successful in the future.
Perseverance is also indispensable for success, without which we can hardly overcome the difficulties and will have nothing accomplished .
In conclusion, success is not something easy to achieve, and it will be based on opportunity, devotion and perseverance. Just as the old saying goes, ‘where there is a will, there is a way.’

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To some people, friendship means “nobody is in charge.” Friendship is strictly egalitarian. Neither partner exercises authority over the other.
If this is what you mean by “friendship,” then the question seems to be about the effects of permissive (or even neglectful) parenting.
Research suggests that kids do better when their parents show affection and enforce age-appropriate limits on their children’s behavior
Consider the parent who enforces limits and avoids worrying her kids with detailed accounts of her adult personal problems.
She is first and foremost a mother to her kids.
But she might also see herself as a friend because she and her kids share a sense of mutual loyalty, trust, and respect.
In addition...
• She treats her children as individuals with minds of their own.
• She talks with her kids about their thoughts, hopes, ideas, and feelings.
• She shares bits of her own “mental life” with them--not the bits likely to distress kids, but bits that help kids see their parents as human beings (Example: “I’m disappointed. I wish we could go to Disneyland, too, but we can’t afford it.”)
This notion of friendship seems consistent with the literature on secure attachments, “mind-minded parenting,” inductive discipline (explaining why it’s important to follow rules), and authoritative parenting (parenting that is warm and responsive, but also associated with high standards).
Is this really friendship?
It’s not a strictly egalitarian friendship. It’s more like the sort of friendship that some adults manage to have with authority figures--like senior colleagues, supervisors, commanding officers, community leaders, or religious advisors.
Both parties respect each other. They care about and trust each other. They can have interesting conversations and enjoy each other’s company in informal settings. But there are constraints. The dominant party has to keep some information to himself. And there are times when the dominant party must exercise his authority.
Is it worth it? I suppose it depends on your personal characteristics and cultural beliefs. And maybe some kids don’t adapt well to the parent-as-authoritative-friend model.

背一背上述的好句子，应该能对你口语发挥有帮助吼。。