请用英语帮我翻译下这句话。不要抱怨生活中的遇到的不公平和伤害,多想想为何会允许这样的事发生?当你有能力不给别人尊严时候你才配有尊严!
前半句Don't complain about the unfair life encountered and damage, think more about why would allow such a thing happen?