【在线等】学会拒绝 英语议论文 写作指导

Question

题目Learn to say no,要求结合个人经历与感悟。我的中心思想是只有学会拒绝才能排除一切不必要的干扰和诱惑，给指导就可以了。而且我这个是要作为演讲的

Answer 1

Learn to say “no”
For most of us , saying “no” is very difficult. We don’t want to offend or disappoint people. As a result, we have to spend too much of our time and energy on doing things, which seriously interferes our work. But it requires a great time and energy for us to pursue our goal. In fact, not only do we have to devote most of our time but also our heart and soul. Therefore, even if a request is legitimate and important, sometimes we just have to say “no” in order to prevent too great a toll on our time. And it is possible to decline a request in ways that do not seem rude or unkind. Here are some nice ways to say “no”.
You may pay a compliment as you say “no”. Take a university professor, Delores, for example, when someone calls asking him to serve on their board, and he knows that he just can’t do it. He often say, “ I’m so glad you thought of me. I am a big fan of your orgnization, but my schedule just won’t allow me to accept your invitation.”
You may also decline in a positive way. For example, “That’s a good product, but it’s not something we can use at this time,” is a gentle way to say “no”.
Buy yourself some time. Seldom do you have to give a yes or no answer on the spot. Even if you feel strongly that your answer will be no. Buy yourself sometime by saying “Let me think about it”, “Let me talk it over with my family” and so on.

我个人认为，只有心中有了目标和追求，有了主见和想法，才会拒绝，才会排除一切不必要的干扰和诱惑。
我的作文第一段先写现代人说NO的现状，以及说NO的必要性。 接下来写怎样委婉地说NO。
不知道你的作文要求是什么，是高中作文还是大学的？仅做参考用吧

Answer 2

i 'd like to give you some advice:
first you can give the example that in the face of someone else's request, you do not want to say "no." Even the unreasonable demands, you will always have an agreed, in particular, often regret it later, you are full of contradictions.
you are determined more than once to learn how to resist other people can beg for each face that both eyes.

then one day it do harm to you(give the real things).you think over this indicate and want to change yourself-------next give the reason why dont't say no is not so good and learn to say no is better.
finally sumrise the topic of learn to say no.

it just my opinion you can take advantage of it.