英语作文:嫉妒别人对我们没好处

Answer 1

If you're someone who aspires to something beyond the ordinary, you must have figured out by now that there will always be those who are jealous or resentful of your success.
如果你想不走寻常路，做出些非凡的成就，那你就要明白总有那么一些人会对你的成就心生嫉妒与怨恨。

It doesn't matter that you've worked long and hard to get where you are, nor that you've made great sacrifices in achieving your goals. The "haters" will always find a reason to criticize and even condemn you.
无论你工作有多努力，或者你做出了多大的牺牲才获得了现在的成就，那些“恨你的人”总能找到理由来批评你，甚至诋毁你。

They're spiteful people who begrudge you the pride you have in yourself and the recognition you're receiving from others. They can't stand it that you're happy, fulfilledand achieving your goals.
对你心生不满的人看不惯你对自我的肯定，也见不得你得到别人的认可。他们无法忍受你的快乐、满足和成功。

These hateful individuals are unwilling to do the work that you've done; they rarely make the same kinds of sacrifices or put in the long, hard hours. They resent your success but are too lazy or spoiled to invest real time or energy in the pursuit of their own goals.
这些嫉恨你的人不愿意去做你所做过的事，不愿意同你一样做出牺牲，也不愿意花时间心血去工作，他们只是嫉妒你的成功，却永远懒得去花时间和力气去完成自己的目标。

It's true that we aren't always going to succeed in our ventures, even if we put in the time and effort. Results are never guaranteed and life has a way of throwing curve balls at us.
诚然，有时候即使我们付出了时间和努力，也未必能成功。谁也不能保证生活会是一帆风顺的，有时，它也会跟你打个擦边球。

I loved it when Tina Fey went up to collect her Golden Globe and held it high, saying, "This is for all the haters!" She's a good example of a talented, hard-working and successful person who's received an inordinate amount of negative press. Ms. Fey may be besieged by haters but she refuses to let them get to her.
我喜欢蒂娜––-菲在金球奖领奖时说过的话，她把奖杯高高举起，说道，“感谢那些讨厌我的人！”蒂娜就是富有天赋、工作努力而且获得成功的好例子，同时，她也收到了无数负面抨击，但她从未让这些流言蜚语影响到自己。

The thing you need to know about these haters is that the only reason they behave this way is that you have something they want but they aren't willing to work for it.
你只要记住：这些嫉恨你的人，他们讨厌你的唯一理由就是他们想得到你所得到的，却不愿意付出你所付出的。

The haters are convinced that you've been lucky or that you've had some unfair advantage but the truth is that your success is born of your untiring efforts, and it's these efforts that have brought about your "luck."
讨厌你的人总觉得你只不过是运气好而已，或者你走了后门，但事实是，你是通过自己的不懈努力才做出了成绩，这些努力才是你的“好运”所在。

The best way to deal with haters is what I call the "one-two punch." First, don't let themphase you. Be happy about your success and proud of your accomplishments. Let in the approval and the recognition from affirming, supportive people and never doubt that youdeserve all this. The haters are angry, jealous people. What they think or say is ultimately meaningless.
对付嫉恨你的人的最好办法就是下面这套“组合拳”。第一，别让他们影响到你。尽情地为自己取得的成功而感到高兴和自豪吧，和那些欣赏你、赞美你、支持你的人在一起，不要怀疑，这些是你应得的。讨厌你的人都是善妒易怒的人，别去管他们说了什么，无论他们说什么，都不重要。

Answer 2

　　嫉妒与羡慕（From Envy to Admiration）
　　Jealousy, one of the Seven Sins in Christianity, is unquestionably a kind of human nature equally possessed by all mankind despite the variety in races, environments and civilizations. While admiration, a commonly prevailing sentiment as well, should do no harm to the owner as compared with envy.
　　In the Biblical world, the very first murder was aroused by envy and in Greek Mythology we could fortunately have this privilege to appreciate the colorful but sinful paradise of jealousy. It seems that Envy is inevitable and unavoidable and every one of us should have tasted the flavor of jealousy during the long and painful way towards adulthood. According to scientific study, the tender budding shoots of jealousy sprouted in the heart of a child when we have to compete with our brothers or sisters but fail to be outstanding in that peculiar period of the formation of one’s body and soul. And what’s more, however, we gradually learn in that period how to correctly deal with the budding jealousy and the means to restrain it whenever this little devil should want to assert itself. And nowadays, as the One Child policy has became the Horse Sense, most of us, especially those who were born in the 1980s have no immediate brothers or sisters and we are much more likely self-centered in our way of behavior and lack of cooperative inclination in general. That is to say, as a Post-1980 Generation member, we are inclined to be jealous.
　　So how to efficiently remedy this inimical natural flaw endowed by the Omnipotence since we humans always try so hard to perfect ourselves? In my opinion, the only way to achieve this seemingly impossible goal is to learn to admire, try to appreciate others’ virtues and advantages we do not own but for a long time have coveted, especially that of our peers. The distinctions between envy and admiration are obvious enough but there is one respect still worthy of mention, that jealousy would not be aroused between two persons who are by no means related in any sense. For instance, we may be envious when one of the peers has got an award but we definitely won’t be jealous if Michael Jordan has been conferred on the MVP. And the degree of envy often increases if the peer who has outdone us had used some treachery tricks or shamefully taken some unfair advantages. And this type of envy often inevitably results in overflowing but hidden hatred. The decided safety of the middle station of life, as advocated by Confucianism, is one of the evidences that reflect man’s fear toward the grudge caused by jealousy.
　　But envy is not as totally devilish as it seems to be. Slight jealousy can stimulate our desire to achieve what we want or what we envy. According to Freudian theories, it is the emotion of jealousy which finally stirs the poor people in misery to pursue fairness and justice. But correspondingly it is a morbid and destructive emotion that sometimes bothers and frustrates us.