高中生谈恋爱,弊大于利,
首先,从各个方面讲,作为高中生,都应该先以学习为重,应该很明白上高中的目的是什么,不管是学知识还是考大学,还是受父母所托,谈恋爱都将对学习造成或大或小的影响,而因为谈恋爱耽误了学习造成悲剧的例子更是举不盛举,甚至有被学校处分开除进监狱的现像,造成这些的罪魁祸首都是因为过早的谈了恋爱.试问,辜负了父母辜负了老师,辜负了对你有期待的人,你于心何忍,
其次.年龄普遍都是十七岁左右,从生理上来讲都是很不成熟,据现在的权威研究,女性完全发育成熟是在二十周岁左右,而男性要比女性慢,是在二十二周岁左右,正因为这样,国家法律才规定只有在这个年龄以后.才能够合法的结婚,这对于十七岁左右的高中生确实是离谱了点,
再者:学校的学生手则上面有很明显的规定,在校高中学生,禁止以任何形式谈恋爱,宣传淫秽思想,查看黄色书籍,而高中生谈恋爱不是明显的在和学校作对吗?作为一名有着高素质的高中生来说都是不能违背学校相关的规定的,
最后:作为一场恋爱,它最后的归宿都是结婚,而作为高中生,根本就没任何的经济基础,以后何去何从更是一片茫然,无论现在多么的山盟海誓,多么的水晶纯洁,自己还是负不起这个责任的,与其在毕业的时候流下那悔恨的泪水,还不如先埋起自己的感情,在适当的时候再把它拿出来,那个时候开出来的花才是真正美丽的花,是情是理,选择正确和埋下悔恨,作为已经有了自己独立思想和独立人格的高中生,应该很清楚的分出孰轻孰重,
综上所述,高中生应该以学习为主,就算是有了感情,也应该能够很好的控制自己,化感情的冲动为学习的动力,以对对方的关注勉励自己,今天好好的学,明天才能好好的过。
翻译:
High school students fall in love and do more harm than good, first of all, from all perspectives, as a high school student, be the first to learn of the heavy, should high school understand what is the purpose, regardless of knowledge or university entrance examination, or by the parents care, love will have to learn caused large or small, And because they love learning delays caused by the tragedy is the example cited is not auspicious. there was even expelled from the school into action at the same prison, the chief culprit in causing these are premature talk of love. How can live up to the parents to live up to the teacher, to live up to your expectations, you being unsympathetic, followed by. ages are generally around the age of 17, from a biological perspective, are very immature, according to the authoritative study, women are fully mature in about 20 years, while men than women slowly, in about 22 years old, is because of this, State law stipulates that only in this age beyond. can legitimate marriage, This 17-year-old high school student is really outrageous, Furthermore : school students hand above it is clear, high school students in the school, prohibits any form of love, publicity obscene thinking, View yellow books, while high school romance is not, obviously in school and go against? as a high-quality high school students have been unable to breach terms back school-related provisions in the last : as a love, it is the final destination of marriage, and as a high school student, no fundamental basis of any economy, the future direction is a loss, no matter how the pledge now, how crystal purity, or can not afford to take their own responsibility, with the graduation of remorse when it shed tears, if we do not buried with their feelings at the right time then it is pulled out, then open the flower is the real beauty of flowers, is a feeling of justification, and to choose the correct buried remorse, as has already made its own independent thinking and personality of high school students, should be well aware of the separation of the pros. In sum, high school students should be learning-based, even if the feeling is there, it should also be able to control their own good. the feelings of the impulse for learning momentum to the other side encouraged his attention, good school today and tomorrow can be good too.
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