麻烦各位英语高手帮我翻译以下一段中文成英文，这对我很重要的！谢谢各位!!

Question

我知道曾经以前你有过几段不愉快的恋爱经验令到你对爱情失去了热情而让你受伤了。但是，你知道吗？生活有时候就是这样, 每一个人的爱情不全是一帆风顺的。 跌倒，失败，离开，是我们在寻找真爱的旅途中都会遇到的。有时候有挫折也不是一件坏事呀！我们要在挫折中才会变得更加成熟和在挫折中吸取经验。
曾经的那份感情给你留下了伤害,所以你更应该从中走出来,不能再想著过过去,曾经的感情都已经逝去,何必那麼在意过去的事,过去的已经过去了,要用心对待现在的事。这一些看你用什麼角度去看去想去感受。例如：如果是开心的事,就放在心里经常想想,还可以让自己开心,如果是不开心的就忘记它,把那些不开开的事都忘记,就都剩下开心的了,那我们的一生才是快乐的一生。
当遇到真正对你好的人的时候...就要放心去交往...别因为之前的伤害而让机会溜走...别对爱情没信心....因为不是每段爱情都一样哦.. 伤害你的毕竟是少数不是全部（你可以拒绝所有人的爱，你避免了伤害；但相对的，你也间接的关闭了“被爱”的那道门；你失去的其实更多）。
希望你能够坚信，真爱在这个世界上还是存在的，可能在你寻找的过程中会有很多意外的出现,那也不必太在意,那都是生命过程中的插曲,有了这些插曲,生命才更加精彩。
而你自己真正的问题并非你失去了对爱情的信心，而是没能从曾经伤害的阴影里走出来。
最後，我希望我这几句简单的话能给你带来帮助
“心病是还需心药医” 。但是，真正能医好你的不是任何人，而是你自己。

Answer 1

我知道曾经以前你有过几段不愉快的恋爱经验令到你对爱情失去了热情而让你受伤了。但是，你知道吗？生活有时候就是这样, 每一个人的爱情不全是一帆风顺的。 跌倒，失败，离开，是我们在寻找真爱的旅途中都会遇到的。有时候有挫折也不是一件坏事呀！我们要在挫折中才会变得更加成熟和在挫折中吸取经验。
曾经的那份感情给你留下了伤害,所以你更应该从中走出来,不能再想著过过去,曾经的感情都已经逝去,何必那麼在意过去的事,过去的已经过去了,要用心对待现在的事。这一些看你用什麼角度去看去想去感受。例如：如果是开心的事,就放在心里经常想想,还可以让自己开心,如果是不开心的就忘记它,把那些不开开的事都忘记,就都剩下开心的了,那我们的一生才是快乐的一生。
当遇到真正对你好的人的时候...就要放心去交往...别因为之前的伤害而让机会溜走...别对爱情没信心....因为不是每段爱情都一样哦.. 伤害你的毕竟是少数不是全部（你可以拒绝所有人的爱，你避免了伤害；但相对的，你也间接的关闭了“被爱”的那道门；你失去的其实更多）。
希望你能够坚信，真爱在这个世界上还是存在的，可能在你寻找的过程中会有很多意外的出现,那也不必太在意,那都是生命过程中的插曲,有了这些插曲,生命才更加精彩。
而你自己真正的问题并非你失去了对爱情的信心，而是没能从曾经伤害的阴影里走出来。
最後，我希望我这几句简单的话能给你带来帮助
“心病是还需心药医” 。但是，真正能医好你的不是任何人，而是你自己。
I know you have a few unpleasant experience in love make you love lost the passion and allow you to be injured again. But, you know? Sometimes life is so, each person's love is not everything is going smoothly. '. Fall, fail, leaving, we are in the journey to finding love can have. Sometimes a setback is not a bad thing! We want to become more mature in frustration and setbacks in lessons.Once that sentiment left you hurt, so you should come out, can not think of the past, had the feeling has gone, why so much a thing of the past, the past is past, to treat it. The see you on what to see and feel. For example: if it is a happy thing, put in the heart often think, also can make oneself happy, if it is not happy and forget it, those who do not have things to forget, they remain happy, that our life is the happy life.When the real people of Hello .... will be assured to contacts ... Don't because of prior to the injury and let the chance slip away ... Don't love do not have confidence.... because not each section of love oh.. hurt you is the minority after all not all ( you can refuse all the love, you avoid injury; but the relative, you also indirect closed" loved" the door; you lose is actually more ).I hope you can believe, love in this world still exists, it may be in your search process will be a lot of the accident occurred, it need not be too concerned about, it is the process of life episode, with this episode, life more exciting.But your real problem is not that you lost the confidence of love, but can't from ever hurt walked out of the dark.Finally, I hope that a few simple words can help you" Heart disease is also medicine for the heart". But, really can cure you nobody, but you

Answer 2

是不是我再怎么努力也没用了?

Answer 3

I know you have a few unpleasant experience in love make you love lost the passion and allow you to be injured again. But, you know? Sometimes life is so, each person's love is not everything is going smoothly. '. Fall, fail, leaving, we are in the journey to finding love can have. Sometimes a setback is not a bad thing! We want to become more mature in frustration and setbacks in lessons.
Once that sentiment left you hurt, so you should come out, can not think of the past, had the feeling has gone, why so much a thing of the past, the past is past, to treat it. The see you on what to see and feel. For example: if it is a happy thing, put in the heart often think, also can make oneself happy, if it is not happy and forget it, those who do not have things to forget, they remain happy, that our life is the happy life.
When the real people of Hello .... will be assured to contacts ... Don't because of prior to the injury and let the chance slip away ... Don't love do not have confidence.... because not each section of love oh.. hurt you is the minority after all not all ( you can refuse all the love, you avoid injury; but the relative, you also indirect closed" loved" the door; you lose is actually more ).
I hope you can believe, love in this world still exists, it may be in your search process will be a lot of the accident occurred, it need not be too concerned about, it is the process of life episode, with this episode, life more exciting.
But your real problem is not that you lost the confidence of love, but can't from ever hurt walked out of the dark.
Finally, I hope that a few simple words can help you
" Heart disease is also medicine for the heart". But, really can cure you nobody, but you.